সময়ৰ মায়াজাল ফালি জীৱনক বুজাৰ এক কণমান প্ৰয়াস – An endeavor to realize life by breaking the illusion of time.
সময়ৰ মায়াজাল ফালি জীৱনক বুজাৰ এক কণমান প্ৰয়াস – An endeavor to realize life by breaking the illusion of time.
In so many occasions, when we need to make a decision, we are just unable to do so. At that moments, our minds are filled with utter confusion; no clear thoughts come to our mind, we helplessly keep staring at all the options that are present before us.
No doubt, today’s generation has been enjoying lot more comfort and luxury compared to its predecessors. But, if we look closely into our lives, we will find—people of this generation is no way in their best of health. The booming health-care industry is a proof that comfortable lifestyle has not led us to a healthy life.
বিশ্বৰ প্ৰায় বোৰ ৰাষ্ট্ৰই কল্যাণকামী আদৰ্শৰ ওপৰত প্ৰতিষ্ঠিত। কিন্তু দুৰ্নীতি, ক্ষমতাৰ লোভ, ন্যস্তস্বাৰ্থ আদিৰ দৰে কিছুমান সংক্ৰামক আৰু ঘাটক জীৱাণুৱে ৰাষ্ট্ৰৰ কল্যাণকামী আদৰ্শৰ মৃত্যু ঘটায়। এই অতি সংক্ৰমণশীল জীৱাণুবোৰৰ বাবে কল্যাণকামী আদৰ্শ সাধাৰণ নাগৰিকৰ ওচৰ পোৱাৰ আগতেই ৰোগাক্ৰান্ত হয় । সেয়ে দেশৰ জনগণৰ দুখ-দুৰ্দশাৰ অন্ত নপৰে। দুখৰ বৰষুণে খন্তেকতে উটুৱাই নিয়ে সুখৰ বালিঘৰ । বুদ্ধৰ বাণী, গীতাৰ বাণীয়ে মুখৰিত কৰা দেশতো আজি সুখৰ মৰীচিকা খেদি দিকভ্ৰান্ত সকলো ।
So, our idea of success is very relative. We constantly compare ourselves with somebody else who seems to be more privileged in someway. In doing so, we tend to ignore some very basic facts of our lives. We forget that we all have different capabilities and different challenges in life; so, rather than trying to fit into others’ shoes, we need to carve out our own path
Those were the days I cannot forget even after almost seven years. I do not want to write about it, but I cannot stop myself from doing so; and here I am writing.
We can relate how we too sometimes deal with ‘modern Narcissuses’ in our day to day life. To protect us from the power plays of such ‘undisputed stars ‘ we should first create healthy boundaries. Their ‘my way or highway’ kind of highly egotistical fatality can create unhealthy situations in their surroundings. But they seem unaware of Others’ hustle. Ultimately the whole society gets affected by this egotistical self-admiration of oneself.
“a name is nothing but a symbol of your identity, but it’s not your identity, and your name only gets a true meaning and some value when you really do something extraordinary in the history of mankind”.
Not getting the desired result and thereafter being absolutely fine is almost impossible for many of us. Whenever failures occur in our lives, we start to doubt ourselves; we feel worthless and depressed.
Now consider a situation. By any chance if a married woman is busy with her job and if her husband has to cook in the kitchen, then people and the husband would say– what a lucky woman! But, actually is that woman lucky?
অতীতবোৰ সদায়ে বৰ সুন্দৰ যেন লাগে৷ তিঁতা কেঁহাবোৰো মিঠা যেন লাগে৷ অথচ বৰ্তমানত কিজানি সেই সময়ৰ কোনো মূল্যই নাছিল৷